Hello everyone. I haven’t written
since ages and I am happy to be back. Today I am going to share with you my
story that changed me forever. I hope you get some positivity out of it. So here
it is.
The story begins with my life
falling apart. I never had a perfect life. But what I had was a good happy
life. And then slowly things started changing for worse. I completed my
education with good marks but failed to find a job and my family was falling
apart. Every passing day was becoming a nightmare for me. Soon the problems
started building and so did my anxiety and stress. The happy chatty me was
turned into a sad, depressed me. I used to pretend to be happy old me, but from
the inside I was broken. I tried to get up every day and face the reality but I
just couldn’t. I just wanted the day to get over so that I could crawl back to
my bed and lay awake crying. I had lost all the hope in life. I had forgotten
how to smile. I was absolutely clueless about my own life and I struggled to
take care of my family.
Those six months were the worst
of my life. I felt like running away from all of the mess I was into, but there
was no way out, I had to face what was put before me. That phase was the
toughest test of my life and I could survive all of that because I had the love
and support of friends and some of my family members. All of them listened to
me silently and told me that it will all be fine. They did not sympathize with
me but supported me just by being there for me. Their words made me stronger. At
times all you need is someone to just stand by you and tell you that this too
shall pass.
Some situations were out of my
control so the only option I had was to gather up all the courage I had and
face the reality. Slowly things started getting better and I was getting back
to being normal. I might not be completely happy and my life is far from being
perfect. But I am positive and hopeful of making best out of my life. Such
situations teach you much more than a book can ever teach. I look at it as a
tested my endurance, my strength which pushed me beyond my limits. Now I am
confident of facing any problem with courage. I might cry, but I won’t give up,
I wasn’t ever meant to. I came out of it stronger, happier and more positive
than I ever was.
So if you are going through a bad
phase, I would tell you that this too shall pass and the life will be rainbows
and unicorns soon, never stop believing in yourself and never ever quit.
So
friends, if you have such experiences to share, let me know in the comments
below. If you have any suggestions or if there is anything you want me to write
about, feel free to catch up with me here or on Google+ or on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/AHappyGirlWrites) or
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(ahappygirlwrites). Until next time, keep smiling and I will be back soon.
Don’t forget to have a happy day J.
Very true.Bad phase comes and goes,just our attitude must be not to hold the bad phase just thinking it is bad
ReplyDeleteI think, such situations should come to our lives so that we can improve ourselves and become stronger than before.
ReplyDeleteI too faced such situations. It helps us a lot in understanding people around you , who are true to you and who are with you for their own benefit.I have learned a lot from my bad times , specialy how to handle a bad situation.
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