Every “wrong” person is a lesson

             Hello everyone, I hope you all are doing great. Today I have a slightly hard hitting article to share with you all. As you might have guessed from the title that I am going to talk about the realities of life as taught by some people who in my opinion, no one should come across. Being a 25 year old, you kind of have seen “not so good” people. That in turn teaches you to distinguish between the people you want to be with and whom you never want to see ever in your life. And that is how we make the friends who stay with us forever. Just want to give out a disclaimer here that this article might be too much for some people, but I am just pouring my heart out so I hope you understand. And I truly believe that not everyone you meet will be the “wrong one”.

1. People might treat you like a “Use and Throw” object:

Many people stay with you until you are useful to them, but as soon as your usefulness diminishes and you are no longer useful to them, they start showing their true colours. They are the ones who start following the sign that is written at the back of most heavy vehicles, that reads “Keep safe distance”. In short they will start avoiding you in every way possible. If you ever have to deal with such a person, learn to be practical and not let him/her affect you in any way possible.

2. People might be your “Pretend friends”:

          Some people will always pretend to be your friends and try to show you how much they care for you. But the reality is completely different, they are just not your friends. They fall in the “Fake and Selfish” category of people. They will never truly care or love you no matter what. So you my dear, must learn to identify the Ron Weasley amongst the Draco Malfoys.

3. In your hardest time, you are almost alone:

          I can write pages after pages about this scenario, but let me keep it very brief. Trust me when I say that very few people actually want to be with you, when you are at your worst, not everyone is Dobby. No one wants to be with a sad loser, that’s the fact. So hold on to every soul who has supported you in your toughest time. Never let go of your family because they will always be there for you, no matter what.

4. People might take you for granted:

          A good person is most often taken for granted. So, some people will always want you to be good to them, no matter how they are. But we are all humans, you can be good to a person until other one is nice to you. But if the other person is on the opposite side of “good”, how can you be nice to him for long. These people take advantage of you and never ever return favours even in the smallest possible way. I would probably want to cut myself off from such a person.

5. People notice your faults first:

          Hasn’t it ever occurred to you that very few people actually like good things about you, most of them are usually busy finding out your faults? These people are toxic because they make you feel bad about yourself, because they are just perfect (sarcastically of course). No one is perfect, so people should just stop judging others and the world would be a happier place to live.

          So friends these are some people that have shown me the not so bright side to life. But I believe that every good person is a blessing and every bad, teaches you something. Always remember that life might be a thunderstorm sometimes, but wait for the rainbow. If you have any such experience, let me know in the comments below. Finally I would like to say that I wrote this article very impulsively, I hope no one gets offended.

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