Hello everyone, I had been away for a long time but I am back with an article close to my heart. Today I write this article that is about me turning 25. It is quite difficult for me to believe that I am 25 years old because I don’t feel any older than 18 (wink). But here I go with my story of turning 25.
25 is a phase where many of your friends are getting married or getting engaged or at least hooking up with some one. Others are having a great professional life and spending all of their money however they want to. You see the pictures of their amazing life on the social networking sites and can’t help feeling jealous about them. Then you look at yourself and you have no clue as to where you went wrong in life. You are single, with no idea about your career, you have no money and you live every day with a constant fear in your heart ‘What if I end up like this for the rest of my life?’ Life in short is just like the plot of an integer number, it is constant. You are just existing without a single idea about the motive of your life. But you know what? This might not just be my story, it might be the story of every other individual who is trying to figure out the meaning of their life.
And then when your mind is
flooded with all of these thoughts, you message a friend (or that’s what you
feel) and that person just makes you feel so positive and so loved and so
important. But all of this is short lived and you are back to reality in no
time. Trust me when I say that you don’t need a friend who makes you feel
important temporarily. And then finally, when your stress levels shoot the
peak, you pick up your phone to message an old friend whom you don’t talk to
regularly. You pour your heart out to that friend and somehow you feel a little
more relaxed and just a tiny bit more positive. Or maybe you just take a walk
with a friend who has a life as f**ked up as yours and both of you share your
problems with each other and that makes you feel better, thinking that you have
someone who is walking on the same road as yours.
Believe me guys, life is tough
but being an optimist is the only way out. Maybe someday you will get into an
institution that you always wanted to get into. Maybe you will meet the
man/woman of yours dreams or maybe you won’t, maybe you will end up alone. But
one thing is for sure, you won’t end up unhappy. There is so much love and
happiness in this world, I am sure we all will find happiness in something or
the other. Someday your life will be close to what you had imagined it to be.
Maybe not on your 25th but certainly on your 30th. So let’s be hopeful and
let’s live our respective lives one day at a time and we all will get there for
sure. Until then keep working hard with nothing but a smile on your face and I
am sure we will find out the meaning of life in the most unexpected way.
So friends I hope you liked this article. Do share your
experiences with me. Goodbye my dear friends and I will see you soon.
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